For Members new to Internet dating/matrimonial these tips can be used as a rough guide.
Make frequent visits to the site and search for new members. Don't sit back and wait for people to contact you... if a profile seems to match send them a message.
Initiate contact by email initially and then if they seem suitable exchange phone numbers.
Always try to reply promptly to emails you have received since you would hope for the same.
Having a photo is certainly an advantage and will mean you get more responses to your profile. Ensure the photo is a good clear 'head and shoulders' shot that shows you looking happy. The right choice of photo could certainly make a difference.
You can upload your photo directly from the site by click on Add Picture in Your Profile or Premium Members can send the photo to our London Address where we will scan it in for free.
Make sure your profile is correct and your description is accurate and honest. Read it back to yourself especially checking for any spelling mistakes or grammatical errors. Ask yourself if you were reading the profile would you want to meet you? You can click on Update Profile at any time to change it.
When writing emails don't just write 1 liners. Structure the emails so you give a more detailed description of yourself with regards to your hobbies, interests etc.
Also make sure you ask relevent questions about the other person to show you're interested in getting to know them.
Above all be honest, lying (especially about your appearance) will get you nowhere as you will be found out sooner rather than later.
Its best to respond to a few ads and above all don't give up. You may be lucky and meet the partner of your dreams the first time but in reality it takes the average person various disappointments before they meet their dream partner.
May we wish you all the best in your search.
You can click on View Message at any time to see who you have sent an email to, and who you have received emails from.
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